Masks Off: Disliked for Who You Are or Loved for Who You Are Not?

“Love takes off masks we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.” – James Baldwin Sadly, I believe that very few of us ever reach true intimacy. I believe most of us have enjoyed the temporary joys of dating and making out and other conventions of relationships. But so few of…

What NOT To Do When He Loves You Not

I decided to write this note when another friend of mine had purchased yet ANOTHER book on “how to get a man”. Selah! This one was called “Why Men Love B**ches”. This friend of mine was interested in a young man that she knows was not nearly as interested in her. So she tried to…

No H8ing, But Here’s Why I’m Against Same-Sex Marriage

I am not against same-sex marriage because I just think it’s “gross”. I am not against same-sex marriage because my church told me to think and believe that way. I am against same-sex marriage because it’ll never fulfill the purpose of what God originally intended. It’s like calling some hair grease the word “nail polish”…

The Ugly Truth About What Men REALLY Think About Us Women

This is one of the few posts that I will write on romantic relationships, but I’m sure the ladies will really be helped by this one. It might be offensive when you find out how men really think about things concerning us, but I think it’s important to know. I read this book written by…

Modest Is the Hottest: Skin Is Not In!

If you’re anything like how I used to be, you might have had a hard time accepting the fact that some churches wanted the women to dress conservatively or modestly. You probably thought, “Why can’t the men just pray to God to help them not be so lusty?!” I didn’t like that they wanted women…